A guide to a succesful hotwife lifestyle

What Is A Bull?

Cuckolding is becoming quite popular and more acceptable than ever in our society. A cuckolding couple consists of the cuckold husband who is referred to as the cuckold, or the beta male. He may have a tiny dick and almost never is able to sexually satisfy his wife. The wife in a cuckolding relationship is often referred to as a hotwife and gets to pick and choose who she has sex with. The person that she picks to have sex with is often much more well hung than her cuckold husband and is able to satisfy her sexually, unlike her husband. This person is referred to as the bull, stud or the alpha male.

What Is A Cuckold Bull?

The bull is the lucky man that the hotwife chooses to be unfaithful to her husband with. The wife and cuckold bull may date regularly by going out to dinner, clubs, movies, etc. Or the wife and the bull may just meet once at a cuckold party and go into a room and...you know the rest! He is almost always extremely well hung and knows how to satisfy the hotwife so that she can have endless orgasms. He is usually much better looking that the cuckold husband and in very good shape (who wouldn't be with all that sex he is getting?). He may come around to have sex with the wife quite often, even daily, or he may only have sex with the hotwife once at a party.

What Is A Cuckold Bull Husband?

The bull husband is the bull the hotwife chooses to be completely faithful to the one bull she puts above all others especially the cucks. He controls everything in the relationship including the stud bulls the hotwife may or has to sleep with.  The bull husband becomes the ultimate alpha male. White hotwives usually tend towards the black male for this because they are almost always extremely well hung.

Cuckold Stud: Black Male

Many white cuckold couples really enjoy a hung black stud to satisfy the hotwive's needs. The black male stud is usually very well hung; much more than the cuckold husband. There are many cuckold parties with all successful, young, black studs for older, white cuckold couples. For the most part, black men love fucking white women and will do this with great pleasure when given the opportunity.

Cuckold Stud: The Ex-Factor

Many cuckold husbands really enjoy watching their hotwive's enjoy previous husbands or lovers who can satisfy the hotwives needs adequately. It may turn him on to see that his wife is enjoying a man who had her before the cuckold did, and who still has her even though the cuckold is married to her. The cuckold husband is only being used to pay her bills and take care of her financially, while the ex-husband is the one that gets to have sex with her all he wants.

 

Is The Cuckolded Husband Ever Involved?

Whether or not the cuckolded husband is involved depends on the individuals in the cuckold relationship; and most importantly, to you! Sometimes the husband must suck on the bulls dick in order to get it ready to have sex with the hotwife. This is referred to as "fluffing". It does not necessarily mean either of the parties is gay or bi-sexual, but may be something that is necessary in the dynamics of the relationship. By coercing the cuckold husband to do this, the alpha male is establishing complete dominance over the beta male. After the bull is done having sex with the wife, the cuckold may also have to "clean up" both the wive's pussy and the studs cock as a sign of respect. Generally, however, the stud does not fuck the beta male, but it all just depends on the couple's and the stud's desires.

The Cuckolded Husband?

A lot of hotwives want to involve the cuck husband in this lifestyle but there is a limit a hotwife should realize. The lifestyle is based on the hotwifes needs to be sexually satisfied something her cuckold husband cannot accomplish for her. A lot of cuck husbands get into this for many reasons but always think it is about their wants and needs and this is so far from the truth. So here are some tips to help insure your cuckold husband gats the sense of involvement without actually being involved. 1) Humiliation this is a big thing in cuckolding and seems to satisfy a cucks need to a point this can be done from simple making fun of his size to complete transformation of his manhood. 2) CBT (cock and ball torture) this is done for several reasons it is humilitating to the cuck but it gives the power to the hotwife to release her frustrations to her cuck husband for having inadequate equipment, when doing this the hotwife should do this for her enjoyment and not worry about the pain it causes her cuckold that will show her cuckold that he is no longer in charge. 3) Sissification as the beta male learns to be just that the beta male he is realizing his equipment is not worth a woman’s time a hotwife will start to sissify him. In roleplay the cuck husband will wear panties garters even dresses but a lifestyle hotwife will require more she tends to be completely disgusted with her cuck husband and wants a more permanent solution to ensure her lifestyle will never die so she tends to transform her cuck into a woman. This is done through female hormones. This not only transforms a male into more of a female it also cuts down the male testosterone that causes a male to be more aggressive and less compliant. The ultimate power of a hotwife is to have the cuck become a true female (through surgery) this way she will never ever be able to have sex with him again. 4) becoming a slave after the proper training and the testosterone level is depleted the cuck will become more compliant his sex drive will be lost and the total freedom for the hotwife will be there you can start training the cuck for domestic slavery housework, childcare, all the things that takes the hotwifes time from her bulls.

The Hotwife

There are two types of hotwifes 1) the type that is pretty much role playing she is mainly doing this for her husbands enjoyment even though she does enjoy it as well she tends to fall back to her husbands needs and wants bottom line her husband calls the shots. This is fine for fantasy proposes The problems with this is a hotwife might really enjoy her attention and bulls but as soon as the husband is done she will stop everything and usually becomes very resentful towards the husband which can cause problems with the marriage. 2) The lifestyle hotwife. This is the hotwife that truly wants to live the lifestyle no matter what and does not let the husband control what she does and will do whatever  is necessary to ensure her success in this lifestyle. To find out what kind of hotwife you are answer these questions to yourself and be honest you cant lie to yourself.
1) Have you ever or could you ever cheat on your husband? This is the main question you need to answer to yourself. Although having sex with other men in front of your husband is still cheating it is more toward role playing then lifestyle women that do this in front of their husbands do get the chance to have bigger and better but it tends to be for the husbands self satisfaction as well and does not give the hotwife the chance to let herself go and really enjoy herself on the fear to upset her husband in one sense or another. Routine is the killer if you have a routine you need to start changing it up if he knows what your everyday activities are it will be hard to cheat on him. So here are a few things to help out. Have to work late or on a day off tell him you have to go in for a few hours tell him you and a few girls from work are going out one night go see a relative go shopping something to help you get him used to going out by yourself and even if you are not going out to have sex still go out to get him used to you going out. Put some sexy clothes under some sweats and go to a bar flirt with others get out there.
2) Are you insatiable? Do you think about sex all the time? This is what drives a hotwife she finds it a complete turn on to become a slut for cock and develops a need to have it all the time.
3) Are you to picky in finding bulls? Being picky on a bull is ok but being to picky becomes a problem. If you are a lifestyle hotwife your main goal should be to find a bull husband but finding bulls should be just important, Remember you already have a cuck husband and soon a bull husband as well but a hotwife should have bulls to turn to as well. The old term a cock is a cock is a cock should become a hotwifes motto. Remember the more bull cock you have the less cuck cock you will have to use.
4) dress the part. There are so many accessories for sale to let others know you are a hotwife from ankle bracelets to t-shirts. You should always look your best like before you were married let others know your available. Also you can make your cuck dress the part as well make him wear clothing that humiliates him in public as well there are so many sites to buy cuckold clothing.
5) public humiliation of your cuck husband. Make others know he is your cuck have him hold your purse when you are out, have him walk behind you, flirt with other guys with him there, let the guys know you do what you want no matter what your cuck thinks.
6) Become a bitch If you can’t do this to your cuck husband then this is lifestyle is not for you. You have to emotionally separate yourself with your cuck husband. You have to be able to be cruel and mean to be able to control the situation. There may be times you have to put him into his place and really mean it to properly train your cuck in some cases a hotwife would even have to threaten divorce to get her point across. Or even to threaten blowing his cover to his family and friends. The point is you have to become a bitch and really mean it to get your cuck husband under control.
7) Making your body unusable for your cuck husband remember your vagina and ass is a muscle and when not used daily it tends to shrink back into place the goal is to do stretching exercises everyday to ensure your cuck husband will not fit. And when your cuck husband does have intercourse with you get mad at him tell him to stop tell him he just is not big enough for you anymore be mean to him tell him to go jerk off or something or pull out a huge dildo and start taking care of yourself to get off.

A cuckold marriage ceremony

Once you find the bull husband the next step is to have a cuckold marriage ceremony, this can be done publicly or in secret cuckold ceremonies are becoming more popular every year and you can find ministers on the net to perform them. The ceremony basically lets the hotwife a bull husband to officially announce to everyone that they will become the married couple and the cuck husband will become the permanent beta male. You can humiliate the cuck husband by inviting friends and family to the wedding that is up to you. The cuck gives the hotwife away to the bull husband and the bull husband and hotife go on their honeymoon while the cuck husband goes back home to continue his domestic duties.